Hi all! I wonder if many married ladies wear engagement/wedding rings?
I probably wore it for the first month. I can’t stand it - it’s kind of yellow and wide. And for me all these attributes mean nothing.
Moreover, I can’t remember if my friends and acquaintances wear these attributes. I never paid attention.
Athena
We are talking about mother-in-law and sister-in-law. I was very tired of the annoying visits to our dacha without an invitation and staying there for a month or two. It would be nice if we had common points of contact, there was something to talk about or at least some kind of family relationship, but everything is muted there.
The mother-in-law comes to her home, hangs out her towels, plants and digs up trees at her own discretion, brings some fragrant fertilizers, in general everything is “just the way I like it.” You can’t leave a child with her, there’s no trust, because she’s “wonderful” - she can leave a five-year-old child alone at home while she goes off on business, I haven’t heard about hygiene: her hands and nails are always black, she doesn’t wash her hands after using the toilet, all the dishes are done after it in greasy and sticky spots. This is so disgusting girls!
According to the first one, I tried to build a respectful relationship: I invited her into the house, set the table, gave me expensive wine, but in the conversation I heard that the cutlets were a bit dry and that I was still a bitch! And I decided that she and I didn’t need to sit at the same table. Apparently I can’t save my family, no matter how much I want to. I'm not ready for such impudent attacks on my country house.
We live in the city in my apartment: me, my husband, and my 5-year-old daughter. The house was built by my husband. I would like to hear opinions on what I can do in this situation so as not to be upset anymore. I haven’t slept for two nights... I can’t do anything... She’s sitting there at our dacha, and we’re toiling in the stuffy city, and on the weekend my husband suggested (apparently that mommy should stay there) that we go to his friend’s dacha (who he doesn’t call and doesn’t even pick up the phone when his husband calls him).
I am not interested in being a poor relative, especially since I have a good position and earn normal money. I can theoretically rent a dacha in the Moscow region myself, but it’s such a shame that I do everything myself. And I take my child to the sea myself, because he is sorry for the money - there is a village, and now it has been occupied.
Next week, my sister-in-law is sending her children to us... So that they can live there for another month... The house, I tell you, is not made of rubber, and all of us will not fit there even if I get over my disgust towards my mother-in-law's sloppiness...
233To live well!
Our city is currently hosting an annual trade exhibition, which is easier to call just a fair. By the way. The most cozy and familiar Russian fair has German roots and comes from Jahr - year and Markt - market, bazaar.
I invite you to take a walk through the German province in the rain, where would we be without it?
This announcement in the children's pavilion made my day_ "Please. Don't forget to pick up the children!"
186Fairy, just Fairy
Many letters.
Sasha and Dasha met as students, were friends for 4 years, got married. She said that you don’t need to get married right away, so who would listen ((
The problem was Dasha. More precisely, it’s not a problem, the person just had to be allowed to live independently, and only then build his own family. Her mother has big, big bells and whistles, she crushed Dasha when Sasha introduced us to her, the first impression is a thin, thin sprout that is just crawling out of the ground. She would like to live at least a year without her mother, just alone, but love is carrots, we ran to the registry office.
After the wedding, they united the premarital, bought three rubles in a new building, got pregnant, it’s like live and be happy. After the birth, a paragraph began ((((Sasha from a family with the model “father is the breadwinner, mother is the keeper of the hearth,” and mother’s Dasha, who transferred her own cockroaches to her daughter’s family life, instead of help, a daily lecture that a good wife has her husband’s dirty socks washed on the same day and for a husband there should always be first, second and compote. Sashka’s brain was inserted, he began to actively help Dasha and his mother-in-law began to come only in his presence, but it was too late,
It ended sadly. When Andryushka was 9 months old, Dashka had a breakdown. During the next scandal, she rushed out of the house in only a robe at 3 a.m. and left. Thanks to her friend, she took her, but she had to call an ambulance, emergency hospitalization in a psychiatric hospital. Dasha stayed in the ICU for almost six months, was discharged, and never returned to her family. She moved to the metropolis, got a job, 2 years later she got married a second time and gave birth to a daughter. She was widowed while pregnant, inherited her husband’s business, and now everything is fine with her. I started communicating with my son as soon as I left the hospital.
Sasha also got married. Nadya, a little older, her first marriage broke up due to her infertility, was purposefully looking for a man with children. She accepted Andryushka as one of her own and adopted her as a common child.
When Sasha was filing for divorce, she said that they should determine the child’s place of residence with you, but again, who would listen ((
Andryushka is happy with everything and calls them both mothers. He is almost 7 and is going to school this year. There is mom Nadya, who is always with him, dad and his adored little brother, dad and mom promise to buy a little sister. And holiday mother Dasha, who takes her with her on weekends and on all sorts of trips across the seas and oceans, plus her beloved little sister too.
The problem is that Dasha decided that she needed to take Andryushka. Sasha and her family live in a small town, she is in the regional center, she wants to send her to a good school. Sasha, of course, categorically does not want to give up his son.
People are sane, so far everything is quiet and peaceful, but a scandal is brewing.
The question is - what is best for the child? Should I leave my dad in the family or give it to my mom, where there will be more opportunities for education?
Maria Sukhova
Girls, this is a chatty topic)
I have a friend; in December she had a complex, paid operation; she was on sick leave for a long time. I went back to work in April, and after 1.5 months they were sent on unpaid leave. She found a new job as of July 1st. But apparently it’s difficult to live financially, although she doesn’t complain or ask.
Her parents did not offer her financial help, although they have such an opportunity. She has grandparents, a sister, aunts and uncles and their children (cousins). Everyone lives normally. Although if my friend had asked, they would have helped her. I offered to help her, she thanked her and said that she would probably contact her in July, because... The first salary will be in August.
Moreover, yesterday she met her ex-husband and he also proposed to her, knowing about her difficulties (they have a normal relationship). She didn’t take it, she also left it as a last resort. My friend and I chatted about this topic. But this just a pretty clear example on this topic, we are not talking about a friend and her family.
Are your family offering you help without your request? Do you yourself offer help to your relatives without their request? In what situations?
145Katya Gordon informed her many subscribers on the social network Instagram that her water had broken. Then fans and sensitive journalists were patient enough to hear or see a fresh publication from Katya with the message that she had given birth to a son.
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However, time passed, and Gordon remained silent. The journalists, unable to bear it, decided not to wait for an official comment, but gave the words of a certain man who said that Katya gave birth to a boy weighing 3500 grams. After some time, the singer’s representative nevertheless gave information that Katya gave birth, but did not share the details.
Finally Gordon herself showed up. It turned out that the singer was on the verge of life and death. “From 19 to 20, it turns out, I almost died... I won’t burden you with terms, but due to the fusion of something with something... the night turned out to be very difficult for the entire hospital and dozens of doctors who saved me. Lost more than 4 liters of blood... this is the first day in myself... and I hasten to tell you: hello... thank you to those who saved me. Maybe I’m not the best candidate for life... but as it is, my son is fine ❤️ "- Katya wrote on her account. Note that Gordon has not yet published a photo of her newborn son.
Posted by Katya Gordon (@katyagordon) Feb 21, 2017 at 10:21 PST
The second pregnancy was not easy for the artist. “Frankly speaking, I’m very tired of this existence, not at my full strength. The last month has been terrible. The dude was kicking me inside, heartburn just from everything and sleep like an alcoholic... I’m morally normal, but physically I feel like an invalid. Girls, Was it like this for you? Happiness is happiness, but the last month has been brutal..." Gordon admitted on her page.
Let us remind you that Katya has a son, Daniil, from her marriage to lawyer Sergei Zhorin. The first heir, Gordon, was born on September 27, 2012. Little is known about the father of the singer’s second child. She hides her personal life. The artist once admitted that for the child’s father, he is also a desired heir.
We met Katya Gordon literally a couple of days before the press began discussing her current pregnancy. When I was going to interview Katya, I didn’t count on such a “bonus”, but in the end I received a sincere story about her metamorphoses, the results of which are not only a new album, but also another child.
On October 19, Katya Gordon turns 36 years old. It's time to release the first official solo album with the self-explanatory title Sex & Drama. Obviously, there was enough of both in the life of a woman who had been married three times (even if twice to the same man). And there will probably be more - this is Katya Gordon, to whom the press has long been attached to epithets like “scandalous” and “shocking.” Although, in order to earn such an honor, we don’t need to try very hard: it’s enough to boldly voice your opinion, be extremely frank and not mince words. Really, Katya?
There is nothing provocative or absurd about Gordon meeting me in her law office. Wide smile, gray knitted dress, curls, French manicure. Offering me tea and chatting with her 4-year-old son Danya, she moves from room to room, blissful, serene and... pregnant?! "Sex & Drama and an expectant mother?" - I’m surprised to myself. But we start in order.
website: Katya, at first you unexpectedly appeared on the “Voice” project and sounded loud in all respects. Now here's a new album... Great gifts for your own birthday!
The main surprise was what started immediately after “The Voice”. I’ll say right away that I initially did not believe in the honesty of any competitions and would not consciously go there. I am not a tenor or a vocal circus performer, I am an author-performer of my own songs and a musical personality, if you like.
When I got there, I didn’t expect that anyone would turn around. The question is, why did I go there at all? But everything happened on a whim and by chance. I ran into an acquaintance in Ostankino who was involved in castings for “The Voice” and suggested, almost as a joke, that I try it. I was curious, and besides, I always dreamed of meeting Yuri Aksyuta, the main person in music on Channel One.
I didn’t prepare a song, I could only sing my own. “You can’t make your own, but you can have a popular one,” they told me. And I just have a couple of my own popular ones, and I sang one of them - “Take Back Paradise” from the repertoire of Ani Lorak.
“I am grateful to the project for the opportunity to sing a song of my own, because few people knew that some songs known throughout the country were written by me.”
website: Were you nervous during the performance?
K.G.: I came out with a “wasn’t there” attitude. It started shaking only when Dima Bilan turned around: she immediately began to think what would happen next, because I hate competition.
After the performance, I was already shaking with “anticipation” of the remarks from the series: “Let Lorak sing, and you, Katya, write more songs.” All five years that I performed, I was constantly “eaten”: “Why is he singing? He probably writes poorly!” Now that my songs are in the repertoires of Leps, Lorak, Koldun, and Galustyan, they have fallen silent, of course. Well, after “The Voice” I was showered with praise as a singer. They began to say that I performed my song differently and very sensually. As Nagiyev said, the culmination of my life has begun.
website: Why do you think this is only happening now, even though you’ve been singing for years?
K.G.: I used to feel like I was hitting an impenetrable wall. It seemed to me that there are lucky people, but I am not one of them. And then suddenly everything began to take shape... Even the dream of a book of my poems, which was published by the AST publishing house, came true. It turned out that they were read and reposted, and the first edition flew away. Now the album is coming out. On October 19 we are making a closed presentation for the press, from October 19 to 20 we are opening sales on all music platforms, and on November 3 in Moscow at the Glastonberry Pub we will perform a new concert program for everyone.
K.G.: I like Dostoevsky’s phrase that over time all our dreams come true, but in such a distorted form that we do not recognize them. Once upon a time, during my marriage to Sasha Gordon, I dreamed of television. I wanted to prove that I can also do it on TV and on the radio. But it was a false dream, ordinary complexes. I worked on the radio for a long time - and not that with pleasure, I did TV projects, wrote for L’Officiel magazine and MK. Now I agree to TV projects less and less, I make money in law, and I live in music.
“My age - and I will turn 36 - is good because now I separate real desires from complexes.”
I want to wake up calmly, spend time with my son, go to my office, write songs. I also want three children and a lot of money.
? Don't count on outside financial help?
K.G.: I have no illusions; I support myself and Danya myself. I am skeptical about the desire to get rich at the expense of a man. Why on earth should a person give you part of the money earned before you and not for you. Some benefits can be obtained for temporary use, but sooner or later this will end.
I have never been with an oligarch; my men were of average quality. At the time our romance began, Gordon was generally poor, and we lived in his friend’s kitchen, then in our parents’ house and in rented apartments. I don’t even know what it is - a rich man!
K.G.: I didn’t fall in love with rich people, I don’t know how to choose rationally. My current man is not an oligarch, he is not a public person, but he is promising and very good. Well, as I already said, I still rely on myself.
